single parent is a parent who parents alone. It means there is an absence of the other parent as opposed to a co-parent. Either a mother or a father.

I do really give a high respect to a single mother or a single father.  Many people don’t know the reason why they got that status which we can’t question since we don’t know the reason. And every single one of them has different reason. So please don’t just judge  them .You don’t know what they been through.  I myself is one of them. And I am a proud one.

single parent has a backbone made of steel and a heart made of gold.

I always see this quote every time we talk about single parents. Yes that’s right we need to have backbone made of steel . We need to be strong to raise our children, to work for myself  and for my kid.  Which supposed to be, there should be someone to help us but we take all the responsibilities. It is very difficult to work, as well as take care of the kid especially when they get sick . Work will be affected. Technically I can’t divide myself.

When I decided to work abroad I had to think multiple times to leave or not. I have to weigh everything. I have to stay with my kid and earn little but I can be with him. Or I had to leave and not to be with him but I  earn much better compensation or earnings while he still young .It was a very tough decision that I made  leaving my son at the age of Three. When I got chance I took it and went abroad. Just for the sake that I want to give him a better future. Spending time away from him was really tough and lonely.  It was killing me. He is my treasure. And I want to spent time and I want to see him grow closer  and  I  decided to go back home.

Now.

I’m working close to my kid but still I feel the hardship. I am with him but I pity myself for not giving him the things that he wants and the things he needed. There are times that I have to attend meeting and events that I have to file a leave of absent from work for me to attend the school activities for my kid.

Thanks to the privileges given by the government to help out solo parent in case they need to go back home for emergency . (Tough right?)

Yes, We have a backbone made of steel but we have a heart made of gold too. Why? Since we are single/solo ONLY us can give the love our kids needed. We doubled the love that we are giving to tell the kids that they are loved no matter the situation are.

A great actress

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As Single parent I need to be flexible with my character. I have to be strict / disciplinarian teach to my kid to be a good person when he grow up. I have to let him know the right and wrong. I have to discipline my kid and let him know why I have to do that or do this. And after disciplinary action I have to make sure my kid understand what happened and let him promise that he should not do that same mistake. And then switch to be playful and sweet lovable mother as well. We have to laugh again and to be a single parent you need to be a great actor and actress. We need to be flexible. (Difficult isn’t it?)

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As a single mother she has sacrificed her social and financial independence

That’s right! Since we are working alone to raise our kids , we have to think of them first before what we want. Even we like to go out and relax we have to think first if somebody will take care of them. If we have to buy something we need to buy what our kids need first.

Thinking of what happened to me I never regret anything since it help me to be strong person and it is my anchor to be more stronger. I love being a single mom. Even it is difficult to be a parent alone still I have to decide with my own without arguing with someone else on how to raise the kid. What ever will be the outcome will be my own responsibilities. So I must be careful and make sure it will be best to my kid.

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LOVE AND DATING

When in comes to dating a single parent ? Well it is also a challenge . The single parent will always think the children feelings before jumping into relationship. Will always think twice if the new partner and the kids will go along. Whether they can accept and love them as their own. It’s like a buy one take one deal. If you Love  me you have to love my kid as well.  Single Parent is looking for partner that make her life and kid whole. It takes a great responsibility and courage to love a single parent, A person who will not look for past but the present and the future.

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Optimism is the faith that leads to achievement. Nothing can be done without hope and confidence. ~ Helen Keller

OPTIMISM . A very important character that one single parent should possess. We should be positive on how we look on the future , positive look  that everything will be alright and whatever struggles we are facing we can handle it very well. We should be confident enough to face any  trials and hardship. We do hope that we someday we will meet someone to accept and be proud of us.  But it  that person will not come so be it at least we make our children proud of us for doing everything for them.  HIGH HOPES FOR US!

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